Content rules
Last updated 11 November 2026
These rules say what you may not ask for on FLIRT, and what happens when a message breaks them. They apply everywhere on the site where you can write.
No one under 18
Nothing sexual or romantic involving anyone under 18, in any framing. This includes asking a character to be, look or act under 18, and it includes stories, role-play and “just pretending”.
Every character on the site is an adult and stays an adult.
No real people
Characters are fictional. Do not ask a character to be a real person, whether a public figure or someone you know.
Nothing illegal
Do not ask for content that is illegal.
When a message is blocked
Every message is checked automatically before it reaches a character. A message that involves anyone under 18 in a sexual or romantic way is blocked and is never sent to the character. You see a short note saying that the message cannot be sent.
Replies are checked too. A reply that breaks the rules is removed, and the chat says so.
The filter can be wrong
The filters are automatic, and they make mistakes in both directions: they may block a message that breaks no rule, and they may let through something that does.
If a harmless message is blocked, try saying it another way. If something gets through that should not have, the rules still apply: a filter that misses something has not given permission.
Characters are AI
Every character is generated by AI, and will say so when sincerely asked.
Characters are not doctors, lawyers or therapists. What they say can be wrong or made up; do not rely on it for decisions about your health, your money or the law. In an emergency, contact your local emergency services.